Monday / November 07 / 2011
4 easy ways to date your one-n-only
How do you date your one-n-only? Whether you’re 18-years married or 18-months dating, how do you show the love of your life he’s your One-n-Only?
Skip-n-I are big believers in LOVE and loving love. Allow me to share how I date my one-n-only.
Four Easy Ways to Date Your One-n-Only
Do you blush when he gives you that ‘come hither’ look? Do you exchange suggestive glances over dinner? Do you allow yourselves the luxury of “fooling around” in the middle of the day? Friends, it’s time to start to start blushing again.
(2) Wear his class ring.
Skip-n-I have been together for 20 years. We didn’t even know each other in high school (let alone date), but I have Skip’s South High class ring (go, Bulldogs!) – and remain a proud, honorary member of the Tierney family.
When we go out on what I consider a traditional date (like a movie-date at the Aviation Mall or Aimie’s Dinner & Movie), I often wear Skip’s 1980 class ring. No need to put yarn around it, I simply wear it on my thumb. And you know what? He loves it! He loves that his ring shows all the other boys we’re going steady.
Yes, I wear the wedding ring he gave me every day (and I love it). But there’s just something sexy about wearing his high school class ring that really works. [Here’s where I say, “trust me… just try it!!”]
(3) Public Display of Affection (PDA)
Oh, yes. You heard me. Demonstrate your love for all to see. NOT in a nauseating kind of way. I am not suggesting you go all “shmoopy” like they did on Seinfeld. But let me ask you this… do you hold hands in public? Do you greet one another with a kiss and an embrace? Are you genuinely glad to see one another?
Does he open the car door for you? (Have you told him that would mean something to you?) Does he put his arm around you and lead you into a room?
I don’t know a girl who doesn’t want to be treated like a princess.
(4) Say, “I love you!”
This may seem like the most obvious one, but allow me to share what my husband says, “I told my wife, “I love you” on our wedding day. And I like to think that I show her every day. But, if I never say, “I love you” to her again, do you think she’ll just assume that I do!?”
Great point, Babe!
When Skip tells me, “I love you!”, I beam!! I realize how amazing he is and how with all the women in the world, he chose me. He chose me!
He feels likewise.
Take small steps to remind your One-n-Only why he’s truly your One-n-Only. Those steps make all the difference.